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My ex and I dated for nearly 2 years - lived together since the beginning of our relationship. I am a 21 and he is 37. We had plans to be married after I completed my undergraduate and begin having children (we already had a cat and a dog in our family). We had an overall strong and happy relationship. However before this current break up, we split up for a month but got back together and we were rock-solid as a couple up until the current break up almost a year later - or so I thought. We rarely argued, and still managed to make time for each other despite both of us working, and I also attend college. Then in late June and out of the blue, he didn't come home one night and ignored all my calls. I was panicking thinking something horrible had happened to him. A friend of his - once a close mutual friend, lied to me saying that his mother had died and that my ex was there to comfort him.
Anyways, long story short. My ex had been cheating on me with a woman I vaguely knew of since as early as May (around my birthday). My ex then threw me out of our home with no where to go and with final exams the next day - claiming I was "smothering" him, etc. and every other reason possible under the sun and ended our relationship and brought this other woman into what once was our home and continued to lie to my face about what the relationship was with her while she sat on my couch.
Within a week after the break up (June 22), I told him I accepted our break up and I went straight into NC for 56 days until I had to move my things and our pets out of the apartment in late August. When I went to move out, I saw that his current girlfriend had done some re-decorating of our bedroom. I started to scream at him and very quickly my friends offered to move my stuff out for me. So I told him to have a nice life, took our dog and stormed out of the apartment. I resumed NC from that moment on.
My ex had formally accepted to attend college in the fall just a week before the break up. I believe that our break up is primarily a result of a midlife crisis he is having. He was very different before he met me. He was unemployed and not independent and had very little self confidence. While we were together, he got a job, was accepted to a university and became closer with his family again. I believe he started to panic about college and was essentially attempting to go back to his "old ways". If I wasn't around, then I wouldn't be "pressuring" him to go to college, etc. His "girlfriend" doesn't go to college, and shes an immature 23 year old who lives at home with her grandparents and works a crummy job. He is attracted to her because she has low expectations of him and herself. So, naturally in his panic he flocks to her.
You can read my break up story here: http://www.howtokicklovesass.com/topic/talullas-break-up-storyPosted 7 months ago #-
Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now Talulla's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
Talulla's Old Relationship
Nearly 2 Years
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