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I HATE SPAM! Read Our Privacy PolicyPosted 7 months ago randall
offlineMemberMy husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 5. He has been there for these 7 years helping me raise my 3 girls, everything I have done as Mom he has done as Dad, and the children call him Dad. He attends school functions, helps with homework, doctors, dentists, etc. We were that couple everyone else wanted to be, always loving and affectionate, and always joking and playful, and doing things for our family. That's just to give you some background.
6 months ago he changed jobs. He manages a restaurant, and manages mostly young people, such as the waitresses and bartenders(you see where this is going already, don't you?). I am 34, he is 30, the staff he manages are early to late 20's. About 2 months ago I noticed he was not coming home until 3:00 or 4:00 in the morning, twice not coming home at all, and always smelling like alcohol. He would tell me he was working and getting paperwork done, the restaurant closes at 11:00pm mind you! I knew something was wrong but thought if I just stayed back and gave him space we would work it out. After watching him become more distant over the last month, we talked and he suggested counseling. At our second visit, we walked in and sat down and he looked over at me and said "I'm seeing someone else". I was devastated. I cried, begged (literally on my knees!), vomited, screamed...you name it! We went home and he immediatley packed a few clothes into a duffle bag and left to go "stay with his sister".
He comes home to visit the kids and he still maintains his part of the bills and helps with the home maintenance. I asked if he had been in contact with the other woman since the night he left and he said no, however I hesitate to believe that just by some things that still aren't making sense. He gives me no indication that he wants to come home or is even remotely attracted to me anymore. However, we are civil and keep the mood light when he is over visiting the girls.
I feel like he is keeping me in relationship limbo and he knows I would welcome him back at anytime. The not-knowing what is going on is holding me back and keeping the pain at the surface. So...that said, I've been creeping on the "How to Kick Love's Ass" site for a few days now, and reading some of the stories and I am FINALLY ready to get my life back!!
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Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now randall's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
randall's Old Relationship
7 Years
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