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offlineInactiveI'm a foreigner and have been living in the states alone. Me and my husband have been married for 2.5yr. He felt I've been icy cold to him. According to MOMU, he no longer feel 'admired'. I love him, but I guess I was never recovered from his love affairs. I tried, but the negative thoughts keep coming back hunting me.
I came across the book MOMU about 4 years ago when I first found out my then-bf was cheating on me, and I felt hurt but still so deeply in love with him. I didn't talk to him for 3 days. He begged me to forgive him. I can't bear to see him suffering. I forgave him and got back together. I guess I reconnected too soon, and I didn't really evolved. From then on, he cheated on me again enormous times with different women. I start to blame myself, I think I had caused what he did. But he admitted, I'm a great girl, those things had nothing to do with me. It's his own issue. I seriously think he never respect me and my feelings, that's why.
Like said in the book, I start to focus on myself. I no longer want to be a puppy just follows him around. I'm going to do things I want to do. I decide where I want to go. My world is no long running around his. Until the last time, I caught him sleeping with another woman when I got home. I was supper calm, but you can imagine I almost fainted. That woman said, they've been seeing each other for years. He also told her he want to have babies with her. But she told him she's not planing to have more. She already has 2. She also commented, no wonder he married with me, I'm such a calm person. On the contrary, She herself felt so angry and betrayed by him. She never knew he was married.I know for fact, my husband never tell anybody he is married.
After she left, I asked him, are you hungry, do you want me to cook dinner.
So you get the idea, I've been torturing myself. I love him enough to accept all of these crap. I trained myself no to care about such stuff, which is a total lie. As a result, I see myself moving further and further away from him . Here goes the beginning of this post. Don't get me wrong, my husband is a wonderful man. I love him very much. Otherwise his leaving wont bother me this much.
The trigger to the breakup was, one day when we were having brunch, I asked him if he want to have children. He said he did see any benefits of rising a baby.Then I said, then someone else would want to have baby with me. He said I'm leaving and stormed out. I went home and picked up some belongings and left. I emailed him apologized and said I missed him. I did not make any mistakes says on MOMU. 3 weeks, not a single word from him.
Posted 6 months ago #-
Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now onemoretime's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
onemoretime's Old Relationship
2.5 Years
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