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offlineMemberI was introduced to my ex-boyfriend in April, through a good friend of mines. She lived next door to me in the college dorms and her boyfriend would visit her once and week from back home. She and I are from the same city and she told me that her boyfriend’s cousin was interested in me based on my pictures and what he heard about me. He drove up to meet me one weekend and we all had a great time. Initially I wasn’t too interested, but he pursued me hard. We didn’t kiss till 4 months into dating and he was a gentleman about and never pushed me to do sometime I’m uncomfortable with. After months of hanging out and talking to each other, we finally got together in late august. Sadly, school started in mid-September and we basically went to long distance relationship right away. Things were going great and just fine, until he started to text and call less. Because of this, we got into many arguments and became he became more distance. Fast forward to Halloween weekend, I went home that week so we could catch up and spend time together. On Saturday Halloween weekend, my ex and I got into a huge argument in a bar and left separately. The following Monday, which was the actual day of Halloween, I texted him and basically gave him an ultimatum. I said, “I’m going back to school today and I don’t want to stress about this situation, so yes or no do you want to be with me?”. He said, “NO actually, we argue too much and this shit is just going to continue” . I texted back, “if that’s what you want, I respect that and I will move on”. Finally, we ended the conversation with, “I’m glad we’re on the same page. I immediately went no contact . Fast forward to a month in a half later, it is now mid-December and I came home for winter break. His brother who is a year younger than me ask me to have dinner, and I went because I thought he had some time to say regarding my ex. Coincidently, my ex was at the same restaurant and thought that his brother was hitting on me and I wanted to have sex with him. He texted me an hour later saying, “say away from my family, and how dare you try to sleep with my brother!” I said we should talk about it tomorrow. The next day we meet up and talked for an hour at his place. We kissed a few times and he tried to cuddle with me and I pulled away. We didn’t go beyond that or have sex or anything. After that I haven’t heard from him in a few days, I was so confused about the situation that I decided to call him to straighten things out. I told him that I didn’t want to play games and I told him exactly what I want: I said, “Do you think we can start dating again, take things slow and work towards being in a relationship?. He responded with no, because he doesn’t want a relationship with me or anybody. Then he said, “this is going to make me sound like douchebag, but I want to tell you what I want”. He said, “he likes me, and enjoys hanging out with me and my company. But he needs sex from me, every once in a while. I told him that’s not the type of girl I am and I want a relationship and he wants just sex, so it would never work out. He agrees and said since we both are on different pages and no one with “compromise” it is best to go our separate ways. Lastly, he ended the conversation with I don’t hate you and I’m still very attracted to you. I is just that we can’t be together being who we are right now. I said if one day when you’re ready for a relationship, I hope you will have me in mind. (Now I regret saying that). We got off the phone afterwards and that was it. I feel stupid for wanting him back and I don’t know why I’m still hoping one day we will get back together…. I guess my biggest fear is that he will find a girlfriend within months and be a great boyfriend to her.
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Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now ichan1's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
ichan1's Old Relationship
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