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offlineMemberHi everyone,
Me and my ex mr.X had our first interaction 2 years back in december 2009 wherein i started our interaction by sending him a friend request through facebook.I heard of him and first spoke to him through one of my classmates cum friend.My ex and my friend were schoolmates and lil bit on friendly terms as well.He accepted my friendrequest the very same day i sent him. It started are coversation and we became friends.In a day or two he asked for my number and then even the series of phonecalls and text messages started.In hardly two weeks(on 31st december) he proposed me to become his girlfriend.My reply was awaited.We planned to meet up as he was leaving for his college in a day or two.My ex belongs to the same city as i do but his college was in a different city.Our meeting was successful (can be called as a blind date as were meeting each other face to face for the first time) and it ended up with my positive reply "a yes" to his proposal.Next day he calledup and said he wishes to breakup as he planned up everything for me to fall into his trap to become his girlfriend as he was single and was too desperate for a girl but found me too innocent to use and cannot think of hurting me.I asked him to continue with our relationship and continue the way he plannedup prior to our meet.But what i wanted with this continuation?? just to teach him a lesson as the truth which was revealed lateron by him pinched me badly and my conscious questioned me "how dare he tried using you? "..well it marked the beginning of our long distance relationship (LDR).I was his third girlfriend.He had a serious one in his school which lasted for three years and then one timepass for an year with anotherone in first year of his college.And i was the next "target" now. Slowly with time i fell in love with him and even his liking towards became genuine. I did and gave all my best i could to our relationship for making it healthier,sustainable and long lasting one. But at the same time as i was getting more and more involved with him ; fear took a small space in ma heart and brain considering the circumstances under which we gave a start to our relationship and other parameters which i would like to mention such as 1) always comparing me with his first girlfriend 2) always demanding for physical whenever we used to meet up (Our meeting frequency was hardly twice a month) 3) my ex taking me granted for always as he knew that watsoever happens i will never leave him and always be with him 4) his family's disliking towards me as according to them i did not matchup to my ex on standards of looks and he too believed the same.I shared my fear with my ex and told him the reasons for the same.But he did not pay attention to it.With time my fear dominated over the trust i had over him and unknowingly it resulted in me not giving him sufficient space factor which he demanded.Both of us were too pissed with each other as he completely failed to understand me and I failed to give him the space he askedd for.Finally he dumped me on 15th July 2010.Our relationship lasted for 6 months.But very soon i realised my mistakes( though failed to make him realise his mistakes) and went to his college to patchup with him but in return received an ill treatment of bitter words and insult by his side.I kept trying by calling and messaging him but Later on he blocked me on facebook and blocked my number on his cell as well as he was hating me completely.
I messaged him then on 4th jaunuary 2011 again saying sorry for my mistakes as i did countless number of times before as well.That day he broke his silence and he replied helding me responsible for our breakup.I said sorry again.Our interaction started and again we were back together.but it couldnt last longer.He saw and met his first girlfriend in school reunion of his batch. He again started feeling for her as i could make that out through his changing behavious towards me.He told me''i love her and have never felt anything for you.What i had for you is lust.the sooner you realise the better it is,so please get out of my life'' and then he dumped me again for the second time.Our relationship lasted for a month this time.I did not make any effort to get him back and stayed quiet.
In june 2011 about 3 months later,he messaged me and it was quite shocking for me as i did not expect him to contact me anytime in the future.I had a chat with him asking what he really want now and came up with a new proposal of "ease out friends"-friendship with no restriction and no emotional attachment and including only sex/fun- as per his definition.I agreed to him as i was under this misunderstanding that he would never go so cheap.But he proved me wrong when i met him first time (after this chat of ours) and he almost tried raping me.In a day he realised his mistake and promised me to remain friends with me-in limits with no cheap demands.and then we were back again together as a couple in sometime.This time everthing was sooo perfect.I was already the perfect girl for him.and he too was evolving and was much better this time. He was placed in Reliance Industries and I was working hard to get placed. This time he was sure that he want to be with me for the rest of his life.Apart from all this he had a friend in his college.She was his junior.they knew each other since he dumped me for the second time in february.She didnot have friends in college except him and therefore was too dependent on him.He told me that its not possible to leave her (despite of the fact that she liked him more than as a friend) because 1) She was nothing more than a friend for him 2) she would be lonely if he too stops speaking to her or maintains a distance with her.I too agreed and showed up my trust on him and supported him.His college was getting over as this was his last semester for him. But when this friend of his got to know about us she created a chaos and was behind him emotionally blackmailing him to breakup with me.He asked me for a break of a month so that he can clearup things with her and then come back to me as he feared that this whole mess would endup in our breakup.I disagreed for the break as i was soon about to have my finals (which could have got ruined up because of all this) and told him he need not worry on my side and would get my support.But then slowly his behaviour changed and statements as well.Now he was confused that whom he is in love with-me or her? and was in a relationship with her as well now.My exams started and in these 10 days he kept me double minded.At times his behavior reflected that he loves me and then the next moment appeared as if he want to throw me away out of his life.This drama started from 14th november.Well i got a call from his number and it was the girl speaking to me and asking me questions that y do i keep calling and messaging him? and dint we both breakup.And then he said "dont message me again i am begging you". Later i messaged him shall i consider this as a breakup and if yes then tell me clearly and not put me in a state fo confusion.But he left me in the confused state and messaged me on 17th december to call him up.I called and he said he want to clear up everything that he had fallen forthe other girl now and told me sorry for ruiningup my life and not to contact him ever again.I wished him all the best for his future.This was the last word i had with him.And now I lookforward towards this forum for helping me out in my evolution. I thereby put an end to this drama which extended for two long years.Its time now for me get back to my original self.I have lost myself and want to regain the original me.
Posted 4 months ago #-
Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now goodlucksuccess's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
goodlucksuccess's Old Relationship
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