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I HATE SPAM! Read Our Privacy PolicyPosted 2 years ago A. How to Ask Me (S.W.) Advice 1. Post your question in your NC Diary first (I will not answer anymore emails pertaining to questions about your NC journey). The reason for this is I am a busy guy and I would rather answer a question once. Hopefully others who have the same question will see my response to you and not have to ask me the same questions again...make sense?
2. Send me a email asking me to respond to your questions (already posted) on your NC Diary.
I will do my best to get them answered in a timely manner.
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B. How to Quote Forum Posts 1. First you highlight what you want to quote from the post.
2. Then you right click and choose copy.
3. Now you click the link "quote" below the post you're quoting.
4. When it shows up in the post box below highlight all the text between the "</ cite>" and the
"</ blockquote>" tags and then right click and choose paste.5. Now go below the "</ blockquote>" tag and type your response.
6. Then just hit send
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C. How to Change Your Forum Picture 1. Just click this link: Get Your Gravatar Here, and follow the instructions.
2. Make sure you use the same email address you used when you registered in our forum, OK?
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D. How to Change Your Forum Display Name 1. Go to your profile by clicking the member link under your name.
2. In upper the right hand corner there are 3 tabs click on the edit tab.
3. In the box named "First Name" put in your desired new display name, then go to the bottom, and click "Update Profile".
4. After you update your profile click on the edit tab again.
5. Now in the drop down box called "Display name as" you should be able to choose the new name you just entered.
6. Once you choose that name...go down and click "Update Profile", and you're all done...your new display name should be showing now.
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E. How to Handle Broken Links in Our Forum I changed the address of our forum on 7-27-10 because I am getting rid of this sub-domain it is on now.
What does this have to do with you guys?
Well, any links created by forum members in their posts pointing to "any" information on our forum before that date, will not work anymore.
So if you click on a link and it doesn't work here is what you can do.
If the url (address) of the link you clicked is still showing in your browsers address bar, skip to step 2a.
1. Right click on the link, and then choose copy link location.
2. Open a new window in your browser, and copy/paste the url into the address bar at the top of your browser.
It will look something like this:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/turtles-breakup
2a. To make it work just change the underlined part:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/turtles-breakup
to this:
http://www.howtokicklovesass.com
so it now looks like this:
http://www.howtolovesass.com/topic/turtles-breakup
Then hit enter and you should go to the right page.
3. PM me and tell where this link is so I can fix it for good, OK?
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F. How do I Find Out More Information About a Forum Member? If you are reading a forum members post somewhere on the forum, and you would like to locate their break up story, NC diary, or just see what they have been up to on our forum, there is an easy way to do that without searching all over the forum.
Under each members avatar (picture) there is a link that says member, just click on that link, and it will take you to their profile.
There will be a couple lists, one says "User Activity", and that will show where and when they have posted.
Another list will be "Topics Started", this list should include their NC diary, and break up story right at the top of the list, just click on the title (link), and it will take you to that topic.
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G. How Do I Edit My Posts If I Screw Up? Forum members are allowed 60 minutes to edit any post (from the time you post it, hit "send post"), just use the "edit" link below your post.
If the edit link is no longer there, 60 minutes has passed, or you are not logged in.
If 60 minutes has passed forum members CAN NOT delete their posts, only I can.
If you re-post instead of editing your post, PM me with a link to the topic where you double posted so I can delete one of them and keep our forum clean and easy to read.
If you ever go back 2 years to the beginning and try to follow posts, or find information you will see what a fucked forum looks like.
I never ran a forum before so I was learning as I went along, and you can "definitely" tell...lol
Of course if you constantly make a mess with your posting you will find that one day you will not be able to post anymore...ever again.
Please help me keep this place uncluttered, and easier to use, OK?
Thanks!
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*If there something you would like added to this FAQ list just PM me, and I will do my best to add it to this list, OK?
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zepland said:
How do I delete my break up story I posted?You can't...once it's up it stays there.
You have 60 minutes to edit anything you post.
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Posted 1 year ago -
killafornia
offlineMemberI agree with Sport Billy. Some indicator of the person's sex under their avatar would be much appreciated. Half of the posts I read are hard to follow because I can't figure out if the poster is the girl or the guy in the story. It would just be nice in general to know if the poster is a guy or a girl so you can relate to them on that level.
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There is no way to assign a sex to a profile. You can just PM them and ask them what sex they are, if you can't figure it out by reading their NC diary.
People do have the ability to post a picture (avatar) of themselves, if they are brave enough.
They could post any picture of a guy or girl, or even just the male/female symbols, but I can't make them do it.
I also have no control over how clearly people present their stories.
It would seem to me the ones who really want some positive input would make their stories understandable.
Unfortunately a vast majority of members just join to get attention/sympathy, not help.
Here's an idea...you two could PM each member that you can't understand, and have them post a female or male symbol as an avatar.Good luck with that, I have enough trouble trying to get people to follow the free plan correctly.
FYI - There are quite a few gay stories in our forum, maybe that is where you're getting confused.
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Posted 11 months ago -
MarilynsFan said:
How do you edit your posts?The system is set to give you 60 minutes to edit a post, after an hour it can not be edited anymore.
If it takes you more than an hour to proof read your post...I don't know what to tell you.
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Posted 8 months ago smiles1260 said:
I accidentally re-posted my edited post. Is there any way I can delete one of them?You can not delete a post, you can only edit it.
You have 60 minutes from the time you send the post to edit it, after that it can NOT be edited anymore.
My suggestion would be if you make a "boo-boo" to edit your first post and not re-post the whole thing again...make sense?
If you fuck up and re-post anyways...PM me and with a link to the topic you have double posted in, and I will delete one.
I hope this helps, I am going to add this info to the FAQ's right now.
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FREE Step-by-Step BREAK UP SURVIVAL PLANPosted 8 months ago #-
I am a survivor said:
how to post my nc and break up story at the same time? I don't want to be blocked.Are you fucking kidding me?
This is explained in the free plan...step-by-step.
Also it is (pretty much) impossible to post both your NC diary and your break up story at the exact same time.
That is why in the email you received, it says you need to post them during the "same visit"...your first visit. You post one, and then you post the other in the same visit.
You are "really" going to have to pay better attention if you want to succeed using the free plan.
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FREE Step-by-Step BREAK UP SURVIVAL PLANPosted 6 months ago # -
shapingup
offlineInactivehey scott, i followed the link you have posted to change my profile picture... made my gravatar (really, never thought i would "say" something like that ;P) and now im wondering if ive missed something. grav acct is all set and photo is there but now i dont have a clue how to integrate it in to my account. can you help?
fyi:
i did use the same email addy
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