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   Posted 4 months ago
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   My ex and I, let me call him xxxxx, met three years ago. At that time i moved from germany and was abs new here. I was already in a six years relationship with another guy by time i met xxxx. Due to long distance fights between me and the guy in germany became worse every day. Thats when i met xxx who is a cousin of a mutual friend. Soon he began to chase me like crazy. I used to explain to him that i am already in a relaitonship and xxxx agreed to be just friends. He would see me being unhappy with my at that time bf and used to tell me i deserve better then that. He would prsue me to meet him 24/7. he was the one who helped me find an appartment, move in get furniture groceries. He would take me out every day . showed me soo many new places and slowley i was crumbling under his affection. he told me if i leave my bf he would marry me right away. I myself was confused about my feelings and so i made plan to fly germany to meet my at that time bf so to either make things work or find closure. The momnenbt i met my bf i knew my feelings are dead for him and i am in love with xxx. But when i came back and after two years of sharing everyd ay together finally told xx that my realtionshiop with my bf is over and i am in love with him now things changed. He used to bring past things up. He started alking me meeting me then disappear on me , refuse to be intimate with me and just declare he doesnt want be with me. This push and oull went on for weeks. it made me feel miserable. I admit to him its myf ault and i really tried to make it up to him by basically becoming his doormat. I knew i messed up so tried to make it up to him. however he felt like i hurt his feeling and ego and told me he cannot forgive and forget. I know we both have amazing time when we together and we extremly comfortable with each other, he has never een in long relaitonship even though he is 40 but all his friends tolod me with me it is different. Two weeks ago he send me text messge that he doesnt want me in his life at all anymore, I started calling him. email him no response. I am shattered as we used talk at least 9 times a day every day and he ade me abs dependant on him.
   I am very depressed and if eel like my world came to end . Thats why i was searching on net for some answers.
   I sent him the Nc messge today and got an asnwer back which hurt me even more. I did not reply. The nc messge i sent is
   hi,

   i agree with your decision to take a break.I really believe it is the best thing for both of us right now.I have some big decisions to make and i need some time to think them over.I would really appreciate if you do not contact me during that time.I will be in touch when i am ready.

   Posted 4 months ago #
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   Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands!
   Now farah's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
   OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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   R.I.P.
   Here Lies
   farah's Old Relationship
   ? Years
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   This just means your "old" relationship is resting in peace, now it's time to work on giving birth (so to speak) to a stronger, better relationship having learned from the past, and not by living in it.

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   Posted 4 months ago #

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