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offlineMemberWe had been friends and co-workers for 10 years (he has been my boss for the past 5 years). We both married other people and both found ourselves going through divorce at the same time. There was always a connection between us, but now were both able to freely admit it. We began dating and he was very clear that he planned to marry me, I was the girl of his dreams, the love of his life, etc. etc. The first year was heaven! Did I mention that we have 5 children between us? Year two, we began blending our families. We went on vacation with all the kids and spend weekends together. I hesitated on moving to his town because of joint custody issues with my ex-husband and that was an issue for my bf (let's just call him xxx). I just needed some time as there were kids involved. But I noticed him begin to pull away from me, stop returning my calls and he began making plans with friends during our time together with no kids. About 4 months ago he told me he wanted a break. He had met some women over the summer and he was intrigued. He was enjoying his freedom and didn't want a relationship with anyone....perhaps he should be with someone who doesn't have kids, and maybe it would be good for me to date around too. I was devastated, and as I lay in bed sobbing, he was busy channel surfing. I spent the next 3 days curled up, while he went out on a date to the restaurant he used to take me to.
We had a vacation planned for the following month, and we decided to go as friends. Of course, I was hoping he would see what we had and come back to me, but I didn't push it. He had asked for space and I wanted to respect that. 3 days before the trip, he said the relationship was over and he was not going on the trip he had bought me for my birthday. I called him an asshole and said I would go alone. He reluctantly went with me and we had a good time. We slept together every day, and each time he had a few drinks he would tell me that he didn't know where his head was and that it wasn't over.
A month after we returned home, I discovered he is in another relationship. Since he owns the company I work for, he charged flights for him and her on the company credit card, so I stumbled across her name. I freaked out on him, threw stuff, cried and called him all kinds of names. He just hugged me and told me that this was incredibly difficult for him and that he thinks about me all the time and wants to just grab me and go. So I take this as a sign, and I stupidly beg him to come back. That's when he rejects me all over again, in favor of his new relationship. So this pattern begins where I either ignore him or appear to be moving on and he reels me back in with some flattery, asking for hugs, flirting and telling me he still loves and cares for me. Is he deliberately messing with my head for his own ego, or is he really torn? I have removed him from FB and have barely spoken to him in the last two weeks, mainly because I'm tired of being his puppet. He sent me a text on Christmas morning, and again on New Years eve. I responded politely but without emotion. I still love him and I want him back, so it's time to use a little reverse psychology, but in the interim, it's going to be all about me!
Posted 4 months ago #-
Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now Earth Angel's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
Earth Angel's Old Relationship
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