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I HATE SPAM! Read Our Privacy PolicyPosted 6 months ago dani
offlineInactiveMe and my ex we together over 4 years - i loved him and i thought he loved me.
There was an age gap however it felt that wasent the problem....to cut a long story short i had just come out of university he was very supportive.my mum however didnt agree with the relationship and i always went to his house - this wasent a problem apart from my mum would sometimes interfere and hound him.
the final straw was he had alot of stress of his own.... i thought he was a uk citizen but he wasent and although he said this wasent the reason for the break up he subtly hinted another older woman was helping him with his passport ---- to cut a long story short one month after the break up - he explained to me he missed me but he had to sort his issues out - i said its either me or nothing - so he said ok he will fix his passport the right way without involving another woman ---- (i know this storys very complicated but its true (im in my early 20s so it was alot for me to handle) i was also stressed he could get deported .
enough about his problems .... back to what happened after
so now its been two months since the break up --- i should have kicked him to the curb for his betrayal but i was so confused so i tryed to make it work but i just felt like he still had so many problems.
so for the last month i have constantly been hounding him texting, calling, emailing everything (at first he would respond and then he said hes cutting ties me with me if i keep questioning him about his passport and the way he was going to get it)
In the end he blamed my family member for constantly driving him mad and refused to take blame for anything. He blocked all my emails and was so so anrgy at me.
I loved the old person (my old ex prior to the last 2 months but now his been so cold cause i pushed him away and wouldent leave his problems alone) and i just kept trying to get through to him to see if we could still fix it because it seemed like he did care (as he was crying to me begging me a month back)
his tune changed once he realised i wasent getting back into the relationship without total confirmation this older woman was not involved anymore - he didnt want to talk to me i tryed everything...i begged,plead,cry kept going to his house( he lives so close to me it was hard to break out the habit) now it looks like he goes away for around 2 weeks on and off and i feel he may have moved in with someone else.
i opened my heart to him and i really felt personality chemistry were all compatible and he never seemed to complain about me or showed any signs of breaking up
i sent him the NC message yesterday and i knew he wouldent reply and i dont think i will ever hear from him again as his cousin even told me to leave him alone
ive lost myself chasing him so much - i just want to stop this horrible cycle of feeling needy and lonely without him - i wish i could regain the past but i want to be happy without him first.
he always told me he loved me and for 4 years i dont regret being with him - he was my first love.
i need to be happy without him though because what if he dosent come back ? then i dont want to be unhappy forever
thats my story - i hope i wont ever have to re experience again
danixPosted 6 months ago #-
Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now dani's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
dani's Old Relationship
4 Years
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