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offlineMembermy ex and I "broke up" 2 months and 2 weeks ago. We had a major argument and I was so overwhelmed that I told him I wanted to break up with him, thinking that he would want me back. But he actually agreed with it and said we should stay away from each other for a few months. Immediately, I realized i did not mean what i said, and told him I'm sorry for taking our relationship for granted and asked him to give it a second chance. I begged and pleaded, he was adamant with his decision. He told me he was crushed and hope that this break up will teach me a lesson. He told me he can't give me a second chance because he wants me to change as a person and he does not thing people can change overnight. I felt so guilty and blamed myself for one whole week, reflecting and assuring him I would sincerely change and that I still love him. He then told me that it's complicated because he has feelings for his close girl friend. He said if he chooses me, he'll hurt her and he told me she's completely innocent. I was shocked for my life because never in the world would i imagine he would hurt me this way. our relationship which was close to 3 years is given the same weightage as this girl he had recently got closer to for the past two months. We've never broken up before and I have never asked for a second chance before too and despite seeing me suffered so much and being so sincere in wanting to change, he couldnt even consider giving our relationship a break to work on ourselves but insisted on breaking up because he told me the girl wants to be with her and that she was there to listen to him when things went bad in our relationship. He said his feelings changed and he couldnt see a future with me anymore. I was heartbroken, how could his feelings changed so quickly within 2 months of long distance when we managed to survive the past 1 year in a ldr ? moreover, i trusted him so much with his close girl friend, i encouraged him to spend time with her because i was worried he would feel alone adjusting to his new environment. How could he betray my trust? And in our 2 years and 8 months relationship, this is our first break up, he wouldnt even CONSIDER working things through or simply take a break first. I asked him if he is breaking up with me to be with the girl but he kept saying no. He kept insisting that he just wants me to take this time to grow and change as a person. I trusted him. Less than a month later, one of our mutual friend told me my ex and the girl are already together but they dint want to make it official just yet. I was shocked and confused. How could he tell me to change as a person on one hand, and then get together with this girl in such a short time? I'm not sure if she's a rebound or if he has been cheating on me with her for quite some time already and is just waiting for the right moment to end the relationship with me. How could someone move on so quickly in less than a month? It is such a scary thought to think that after being togehter with a person you trusted the most for 2 years and 8 months, they could suddenly change into a totally different person, revealing a side of them which you never knew.
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Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now charlotte7's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
charlotte7's Old Relationship
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