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I HATE SPAM! Read Our Privacy PolicyPosted 6 months ago ssmacdonald
offlineMemberMy BF of 4 years dumped me 6 weeks ago. We had a beautiful relationship; we were each others best friends and I never thought he would leave me. We talked about the future and really thought we were meant for each other. We had a very difficult summer with lots of arguments resulting from my insecurity and had a few trial break ups. After our trial break ups I was always the one to come back (within a day or two) and ask for a second chance. He always gave me the chance. He finally decided to officially call it quits on our relationship when he moved into a house full of single guys and said that "he missed me but we just do not work." He was an amazing guy but since the break up he has been so hurtful towards me. We are in the same classes in college and he flat out ignores me... its so weird to be so important to someone one day and not exist the next. I begged and pleaded for him to give me a second chance on the night he broke up with me but in the days following I calmed down and gave him his space. I wrote him a letter and gave it to him 3 weeks after the breakup; the letter stated that the break up was the best thing for me because I needed time to work on myself and I apologized for my behaviour and for hurting him the past summer. About a week after dropping off the letter I asked him to talk (through text) and he agreed. I wanted to show him that I was doing okay without him. I was confident and happy when talking with him buttt then, a few days later I texted him and asked to talk again because I didn't feel like I was completely honest with him. He agreed to talk but when I tried to set up a time he either cancelled without reason or said he was too busy. I sent him one last text asking to talk and he again said he was too busy. Right then and there I decided that if you love someone than you will always make time for them; he doesn't love me. I am going completely no contact to get my life back. I want to stop worrying about what my ex thinks and I want to figure out who I am. I am extremely sad and that is after 6 weeks of healing but I need to continue to push forward. I know I took him for granted but I have learned from my mistakes and he won't even give me a chance to explain and work through things. It hurts. I can't lie and say I don't want him back. I do. I reeeally do because I know we have so much potential together BUT he is not treating me right and I deserve better than that. This whole thing is going to make me a much better person and I am so determined to stick to no contact.
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Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now ssmacdonald's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
ssmacdonald's Old Relationship
4 Years
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