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offlineMember**** and I both first met 6 years ago at a job, we became casual friends but when I left that job to pursue other things we never spoke again for about 4 years until a chance meeting, two years later and here we are.
Our relationship consisted of either extreme highs or extreme lows. There really never seemed to be any middle ground. We spent literally every day together and smothered one another. Looking back it was very unhealthy to depend on each other that much. We started to have arguments over small things that became huge issues. Our communication was terrible and whenever she was upset about something she would fly off the handle and start bringing up all sorts of different issues that were not even relevant. This led me to become withdrawn, and forced to walk on egg shells around her. A few months back we had a fight and she decided to end things, within two days she confided in me that she slept with another guy. I found it in me to try and forgive her and repair our relationship. We jumped right back into things but obviously that was foolish as nothing was fixed and it was just a matter of time before another rift formed between us. I also think I subconsciously resented her for what she did and could not trust her anymore. We broke up a couple weeks back and she said she wanted to still be friends, telling me how I'm an amazing guy, and very caring, and important to her blah blah blah. I initially agreed to this but again soon realized how foolish this was as you cant go from a long term relationship to just friends and just switch off your emotions. I told her how I felt, and just as I expected she ended up getting back with that SAME guy, but it didn't really bother me because I knew she would. We ended up meeting yesterday to say goodbye, and later that day I sent her my NC message.
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Make a hole, we have another corpse on our hands! 
Now BlueandWhite's "old" dead relationship needs a proper burial, and a headstone of course!
OK get a shovel and bury the past (baggage), from here on in it's a new day.
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R.I.P.
Here Lies
BlueandWhite's Old Relationship
2 Years
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