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I HATE SPAM! Read Our Privacy PolicyPosted 3 months ago 18/02/2012 @ 11:34am
didn't realized it has been 5 months since I started NC.
The journey is indeed challenging and I am looking forward to my days, happier ones ahead. currently I am seeing someone, not sure if this is a success story, but it will if this is going somewhere, because from the past experiences I learnt that I deserved to be treated better, to be loved and to be respected.
I will no longer settle for anything less than that because I learn to give myself more priority than anything else.
for now, I just go with the flow. it feels good to learn to love again, little each day. =)
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you.Posted 3 months ago #-
willsucceed
offlineMemberAngelBeaR, It was so good to hear an update from you and to specifically hear how you are treating yourself, taking it slowly, and making yourself a priority. Do you feel very different about this as compared to the beginning of your previous relationship? Just curious.
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hi willsucceed,
to answer your question, yes. this time it's different from the previous one. I guess maybe after so much self reflecting during this nc period I began to see things that I haven't seen before and lots of lessons learnt along the way.
I learnt that once that someone no longer cares, let go. if that someone stop loving, walk away. if he doesn't treat me right, keep my options open. No point of trying to drag the mess around my life and in the end making myself miserable.
I hope my wait for that someone to come into my life and stay for good is finally over. *hugs*
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you.Posted 3 months ago # -
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Posted 2 months ago 28/02/2012 @ 11:49am.
Omg...time sure flies very fast! 6th month into NC now and I am doing fine, no, I am doing GREAT!
As you read in my last post, I am seeing someone now. It feels great to be loved and cared for, and I am glad that I gathered all my courage to send that NC message to my ex - everything do happens for a reason and I learn, grow and see things clearly.
And...I have more things to be thankful for.
*hugs*
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you.Posted 2 months ago #-
12/03/2012 @ 12:15pm.
It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It's YOU.
hope everyone doing great out there. *hugs*
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you.Posted 2 months ago # -
06/04/2012 @ 5:30am.
7 month into NC...wow...I can't believe it that I can make it! Life has been really good. Every single day, there's always something that I am grateful of. Been busy with lots of activities and work. No reconnection with my ex so far and I don't see it as necessary.
He tried to contact me few times, dropping short emails asking 'How are you?' but I leave it just that. Not bothering to reply or anything. I am in control now, and the feeling when I just deleted his emails? GREAT.
Hence the saying goes..."if they left without saying anything, don't let them come back with an excuse." My life is going great without him and I don't need someone like him to mess it up, ever again.
I seen lots of newcomers in this forum...and if you are reading my diary, here's a little word of advice to you out there - I know it's hard at the first few weeks or maybe months. But trust me, if you didn't give up...it gets easier each day. Get your life back first. Think positive and everything will be just fine.
*hugs*
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
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AngeLBeaR said:
7 month into NC...wow...I can't believe it that I can make it! Life has been really good.Congratulations AB!
Keep up the good work, and...
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TheSkyisTheLimit
offlineMemberSounds like you are getting there!
and meeting someone new who gives you what you deserve!And you don't even want to answer his email at all?
Wish i was in that state already, but its a slow proces depending on how much you love someone and how long your relationship was, hence mine was only 10 months but it feels i liked to spend my life with her.Nice you are doing great with the NC rule! and you see, he now probably sees how great you are and what he left! not your loss but his!!
- If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it -
- Don't cry for the one who left you, because the next one may fall for your smile -
- Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option -Posted 1 month ago # -
TheSkyisTheLimit said:
And you don't even want to answer his email at all?
yup, I don't see any reason why I should reply his emails. He should know by now that I am doing really great, and he is not in it!
I loved him, to an extend that I almost moved to his state just to be with him; looking back, I am thankful that I didn't made that commitment and get myself hurt even deeper. I am doing really fine now, moving on with my life as what I wanted it to be. He is a closed chapter in my story, and I am going on with the new ones. All that I can say, is that I can only wish him the best in his life. When I feel that I am able to let go, it feels so good that it lifted this heavy weight on my shoulders, and it makes NC easier to get through. If I can do it, everyone can too! *hugs*
God grant me the serenity to accept things that I cannot change....
The first step toward change is acceptance.
Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you.Posted 1 month ago # -
TheSkyisTheLimit
offlineMemberGood to hear, seems you have yourself back on track
Its good not reacting on his emails as he should call you atleast for an effort.
But it is even better if you can let it go eventually and go on with your own life as you know there are better things ahead of you.
All these experiences makes you stronger after all. Keep it going!
- If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it -
- Don't cry for the one who left you, because the next one may fall for your smile -
- Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option -Posted 1 month ago #
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